🚪 Starting Over Isn’t Starting from Scratch

Hope you don't mind a little pep talk.

Take it from me—a girl who’s never had a linear career path. I’ve always been a little all over the place when it comes to figuring out what I want to do with my life.

During college, I bounced from a music major to pre-dental, then pre-nursing, and even considered psychology for a quick sec. Then, I dropped out altogether and joined an MLM (yup). Eventually, I left that too and focused on working until I had my kids.

Which brings me to where I am now—a full-time mom.

I guess you could call me indecisive. Or maybe I’ve just never been afraid to start over.

Do you know anyone who’s terrified of starting fresh? Someone who’d rather stay in a job, relationship, or situation longer than they should because the thought of starting over feels scarier than staying stuck?

Or maybe.. that’s.. you?

We’ve been taught that sticking with something—no matter how miserable it makes us—is a sign of strength. But what if real strength is knowing when to walk away?

Look, I get it. Walking away from something you’ve poured your time, energy, and heart into feels like admitting defeat. Society calls it “quitting,” and of course, no one wants to be labeled a quitter.

But the truth is staying in the wrong place is far riskier than leaving.

The longer you stay in the wrong room, the harder it becomes to see the door that leads to something better. You start to settle. You convince yourself this is as good as it gets, even when deep down, you know you deserve more—whether it’s a better career, a healthier relationship/friendship, or just a fresh start.

Every single day spent in a situation that no longer serves you is a day you could have been building something better. Something that feels more aligned with who you are and what you want.

Here’s what I want you to remember: starting over isn’t starting from scratch, it’s starting from experience.

Every decision, every detour, every “failure” has taught you something. You’re not wiping the slate clean; you’re building a stronger foundation for what’s to come.

Think of it as rewriting a chapter in your book—not scrapping the whole story. And some of the best chapters of your life could start the moment you gather the courage to leave the wrong room.

If you’re sitting in a situation that doesn’t feel right, I’m not here to tell you what to do. But I am here to remind you—you’re not stuck. You always have the power to pivot, to start fresh, and to step into something better.

Because starting over? It’s not failure. It’s growth.

And I believe in you 🫶🏼 Don’t let 2025 be the year that holds you back.

Love,

Millie