As the seasons change, I’m reminded of a big lesson I’ve learned as a mom:
Embrace the season of life you’re in.
Lately, I often catching myself thinking: "it's just not my season right now…"
Not my season to care about the crumbs in my car.
I can worry about that later and would much rather have everyone happy and quiet.
Not my season to get up before the kids.
Mama needs the extra sleep.
Not my season to get fully ready.
As long as I’m in comfy clothes, a little makeup, and my hair is brushed—I’ll be okay. I have two other people to get ready too.
Not my season to sleep through the night.
My youngest still needs me to feed him.
Not my season for morning workouts either.
With two early risers, it’s just not going to happen right now.
But the more I think about what isn’t my season, the more I realize… OK this is what is my season.
It’s my season to find joy in the little things—sidewalk chalk drawings, dance parties in the kitchen, and trips to the park because we need to get out of the house.
It’s my time to let go of the rush and embrace the slower pace. To put my phone down and really see the world through their eyes.
My season to say yes to more play and less perfection. To remind myself that laundry can wait, but these moments won’t. To remind myself that it’s okay to rest when they’re resting.
To find beauty in the chaos and gratitude in the ordinary 🤎
It’s my season to nurture the relationships that matter, to make time for friends who feel like family, and to carve out moments just for me—whether it’s reading a good book, leaving the house to go to a coffee shop, or sneaking away to go thrifting.
It’s my season to focus on what fills me up, to celebrate small wins, and to let go of what doesn’t serve me right now.
Whether you're in a season of waiting, growing, or just getting through the day—remember that life changes, just like seasons. Honor where you are right now and give yourself permission to fully live in this moment. In case you need some quick tips to navigate through the different seasons, here are some things to keep in mind:
Name it. Just as we use phrases like “in my ___ era,” naming your current phase can help you recognize that life is a series of different phases. In the grand scheme of things, this is just one chapter in your overall story.
Create rituals. Start with daily journaling, a monthly goal check-in, or a weekly activity that brings you joy. You could also establish a bedtime routine or a weekly "reset day." These simple habits can help you feel grounded and bring a sense of stability.
Welcome change. Instead of thinking, "Why is this happening to me?" ask, "What can I learn from this?" Focus on how you can grow rather than what you're losing.
Include micro-adventures. Do something new, like trying a new recipe or going on a color walk (or a flower walk 👀). This could be anything that will give you a sense of excitement.
Cultivate your third space. Besides home and work, find a space where you can connect with others. It could be your local gym, a book club, or even online.
Prioritize rest. Sometimes the best thing to do is to take a break. Plan specific times to do nothing at all (and don’t feel guilty about it!).
"You spend most of your life inside your head. Make it a nice place to be."
—Unknown
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📌 Drop a comment with your current “era” and how you’re embracing it below. For example: “I’m in my [___] era and I’m [what you’re doing].” Can’t wait to read about how you’re thriving in your season!
this was so helpful for me to read today! thank you for sharing.
it's my season for routines, early morning alone time, being able to bake a lot, and enjoy slow evenings with friends at home. it's not my season for worldwide adventures and nights out at restaurants.
Love this post. 🫶🏼I’m in my “surviving not thriving” era with 2 under 2 and I am just trying to make sure we are all fed, bathed, and feeling loved and happy at the end of each day.