✨ Welcome to 5 Good Things, a new series where I share five things that caught my eye this week. Whether it's an inspiring story, a helpful tip, or just something that brought a little joy to my day—this series is all about finding the good stuff in life and sharing it with you. I'd love to hear what you think, and any good things you've come across too. Let's dive in and discover the good things together. ✨
Disclaimer: none of the photos below are mine.
Something that inspired me...
A quote from well-known businessman, investor, and philanthropist Charlie Munger:
“Spend each day trying to be a little wiser than you were when you woke up. Day by day, and at the end of the day, if you live long enough, like most people, you will get out of life what you deserve."
Something that might be helpful...
No Power Hour is an idea I came across in Colby Kultgen’s 1% Better newsletter. He asks a simple question: How long do you go each day without staring at a screen or listening to something on your phone? And honestly, I realized it's not much. Whether it's music on my Alexa or podcasts in my ears while I clean, electronics are always on. So, I'm intrigued by the idea of setting aside a 60-minute block each day without using any devices. We're so busy consuming information that we forget to create our own. My suggestion: Try it for one week and see how you feel. Then, come back and share your experience! I’d love to hear about it.
Something personal...
Living in Vegas means preparing for the scorching summer heat, with temperatures hitting the high 90s next week. Despite adjusting to life here over the past five years, I've always preferred the beach to the pool scene. However, summertime can bring a few “challenges”, from extreme temperatures to the pressure to maintain appearances like having silky-smooth legs and perfectly pedicured toes, especially during bikini season.
That’s why I prefer the fall or winter time when I can dress like Adam Sandler :)
I’ll admit, I constantly struggle with my self-image insecurities, especially after having kids. My body has gone through significant changes, and it's been a journey of accepting and embracing them. While the nagging voice of comparison still lingers, I've made a conscious decision to drown it out this summer.
Instead of giving into unrealistic expectations, I'm quieting that inner critic by purchasing a cute, modest-ish swimsuit from Amazon—a tiny step towards reclaiming my confidence and focusing on how I feel rather than how I look.
Something that surprised me...
While we’re on the topic of clothing, this piece by absolutely changed the game for me. For about two years, I've been thinking I should make a capsule wardrobe. But honestly, I'm not sure why. Maybe it's because other influencers talk about it, or it's been trendy lately. I do like the idea of having fewer clothes, but is that just something I picked up from social media too? Then I read what Ofelia said:
I meticulously wrote down and saved every thing I came across and started building out what appeared to be a never ending list of things I was told I needed in my life. (so guilty of this!!)
What these articles and videos neglected to state was that capsule wardrobes are not universal. We are not all the same people, with the same tastes, lives, experiences, dreams or desires. So who were they to tell us how to present ourselves? And why did I feel the need to listen to them?
As a mom trying to find my own style, her post was a relief. It made me realize I don't have to do what everyone else does. I can be true to myself. Give her some love and check out her follow-up piece as well.
*Huge shoutout to for sharing this in her The Sunday S.P.A.R.K.L.E.S. #5 post!
Something just for fun…
Reading this well-written post by took me back to the days before I was married with kids, when I really enjoyed being alone. I was working two jobs and had just moved to a new city all by myself. I had to enjoy my own company, and it was wonderful. I think what I have now, like finding my husband and building a life together, started from that time alone. I even made a solo travel bucket list! It helped me truly find love within myself, and was and is a big part of my 20s.
Now, alone time looks different as a mom of two. Once a week, my father-in-law comes over to watch the kids, so I get a few hours to myself. It might not seem like much, and sometimes I wish it was longer, but I cherish the moments when I can be by myself and take care of me.
💌 Did you enjoy this edition of 5 Good Things? Share your thoughts with me in the comment section.
P.S. Sending an early Happy Mother’s Day to all the incredible mamas out there! There's no one quite like you, and I'm immensely grateful to have you in my corner. Please take the time to enjoy your day to the fullest! Also, here are last week’s open tabs.
Love the idea of a no power hour, thank you for that!
Love this new format. Keep them coming :)